Saturday, February 14, 2015

Armenian Adoption - the woman who sold her baby for $435 to buy firewood American Cyber Report

This has to be one of the most sad stories I have read in years.  It is what happens to single mothers in poor countries all the time, forced to sell or relinquish their child because of poverty.  When one of these crazy "Christian" ministries say they "adopt to save a child" they are lying.  The $40,000 they spend for a foreign adoption could be used to build businesses, schools and clinics for these people instead of preying on people with no power.
Robin Sizemore was doing this up until the Hague Convention was ratified in Armenia (Thank God) poor women relinquished their babies to 2 doctors that Robin worked closely with.  Without a care in the world to the well being of the mother, her other children or her financial situation.  This is preying on poor women and looking down on them as if they are not worthy to be a parent simply because they have no money.
I respect the people that adopt families in poor countries, I send $50.00 a month to help a family outside of Yerevan who went through hard times, when their husband fell ill.  When Adoption advocates lie and say there are 10 million orphans in he world they are talking about "social orphans" who are in orphanages just to get food, clothing and shelter. These children have parents, help them to help their families so they are not forced to sell a child into adoption.  
The poverty in Afghanistan takes a particular toll on children. These youngsters live in a mud-walled home in Kabul's Nasaji Bagrami camp for internally displaced Afghans. In the most dire of circumstances, a parent might abandon or sell a child.

Last week in the northern Afghan province of Balkh, an impoverished mother chose the only option she felt was left to her, after her drug-addicted husband abandoned her. She had to care by herself for five young children and an elderly father. So she sold her 1-month-old infant for money — the equivalent of about $435 in American currency — to buy kindling wood to keep her four other children from freezing in the harsh winter weather.
Such incidents of child-selling are shocking — and illegal in Afghanistan. But in a country plagued by chronic poverty amid decades of conflict and instability, it is not the only instance. "This is the fourth case over the past year," according to Armakhail Safiullah, child protection adviser in Afghanistan for the international children's charity Save the Children. To learn more about the plight of children and families caught in such situations, we spoke to Safiullah and to Zubaida Akhbarto, a communications officer for Save the Children in Afghanistan. The conversation has been condensed and edited for clarity.
What is happening with this case now?
Safiullah: We're responding to this particular case in coordination with governmental agencies in the northern region of Afghanistan. The baby is still with the mother, and we will not separate them. We are also referring the father to treatment for his drug addiction.
What are the underlying factors for this and similar cases?
Safiullah: It is mainly poverty and the economy. They see no other option financially to survive.
How common is baby-selling? Isn't it illegal?
Safiullah: Child-selling and early marriage are completely illegal. The law clearly states that the selling of children is a crime.
Akhbarto: It happens much more widely than we know about. It is socially accepted, and no one will normally interfere. In some cases girls are being exchanged and used like money to pay off debts. Sometimes it is child labor. Of the four cases over the past year, three were female, one male. Two of these cases were early marriages, where money is given in return for the engagement of young girls under the age of 16. It is called early marriage, but it is child-selling. The other two cases were directly child-selling. The 1-month-old infant is the latest.
Could families who cannot support young children give up a child for adoption?
Safiullah: Adoption is not common in Afghanistan, and culturally is not very encouraged. If a child does not have any parents, generally a family member will be turned to first. Usually a blood relative such as grandparents or an uncle or auntie will become responsible. The family adopting has to be Muslim. And there is no international adoption.
What happens to those children who do not have anyone who will care for them?
Safiullah: At the end of 2013 we had 11,000-plus children in orphanages and child-care centers. But there are issues of quality in these orphanages and centers.
What is being done to protect vulnerable children and prevent families from feeling forced into abandoning or selling their children?
Safiullah: We're involved in two efforts. In the first, we are working with religious leaders to encourage them to talk during the Friday prayers, to help disseminate information from the mosques about the importance of child protection, about promoting positive practices toward children, and educating community members.
Second, we are building community-based networks to work for the protection of children. We meet with community and religious leaders, teachers, parents and elders to raise awareness and help them monitor cases and raise concerns with local authorities.
Is it working?
Safiullah: These efforts are significantly contributing to the reduction of the number of cases of children requiring protection.

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